How to handle adverse situations:

How to handle adverse situations

In humans, emotions are the gift given by God. Any human being derives by only thing i.e. emotions. In our personal lives or in professional lives emotions plays vital role which directly affects our decision-making abilities. Basic nature of people is to communicate and out of that 90% people love to communicate about others, there situations, decision-making etc. We are sure with one thing that situations arises many times would be sometimes good and sometimes bad depending upon situations. Everyone has different attitude, perception, beliefs and strategies to deal with same situations.

When adverse situation arises usually people get upset, break into emotions, feeling helpless, directionless and feels all kinds of negativity about their own capabilities and most of the times people around them make them feel like this. But very few have those amazing attitude, will power to mould any adverse situation and fight back with their creative people skills, in the end everyone has to admire their heroic performance to deal with any adverse situation personally or professionally.

I got an opportunity to meet and live with such very few incredible super humans who out performed and still stand high not only in their own lives standards but also who inspire people around them. This article is nothing but collection of unusual courage shown by these people, which they show in every moment of their lives. I tried to jot down their styles, strategies, mindsets in point format which will help you all to connect with ease. Click here to know more on how to be courageous in life https://bit.ly/2CgJmpK

Here are the life changing points I can bet upon if anyone applies will see positive changes in their life, which any common person thinks is a miracle and can live that dream life and inspire others to do what you achieved.

1.       Be Calm:

We all know that in any situation always try being calm and it’s very tough when things are not moving according to what we planned. There fear arises in our minds and we start panic and this is where most of us fall in the trap and make things worse for ourselves. Click here to read more on how to overcome fear https://bit.ly/2SxIUxM . Being organized in your life will help you to feel positive and keep your cool.

2.       Have Patience:

Patience is an ability which in recent times we saw most people are lacking. In this technology driven society we need everything instantly and it is good to some extent. But what our super amazing heroes say deal with any situation with patience with aggression in your work and body language, have desperation but the intensity you need to decide. That comes with practice and being more conscious with your moral values. To improve this, meditation is the most effective way to deal with desperation, frustration, indecision, helplessness, self-destruction etc. click here to learn on effects of meditation in our lives https://bit.ly/2XbthKL

 

3.       Believing In Yourself:

When adversity attacks the first people who start getting irritated are our family and relatives it’s a harsh reality which you need to believe, and out of them few are there to stand with you when no one stands with you. Self-confidence shrinks when the people around you will start negativity about your abilities and beliefs, here negative emotions drives our mind in self-destructive mode like depression, suicidal etc. Here you need to stand with your decisions and yourself first. Click here to know how to build self-confidence https://bit.ly/2Syc7IO .Above two points will help you to improve your confidence in yourself.

4.       Be A Bit Adventurous With Life Take Risk:

When odds are against us, we start taking things over seriously, start worrying in the things which not exists and so on. The basic formula of life is to stay happy and have mental peace. This will be achieving by appreciating small achievements rather I say moments in life. When we become happy our body releases the hormones and positivism flows in and we start feeling energetic. Always be  in sportiness with your friends and near ones who understands you. This will improve your risk taking ability because your self-confidence is at high and people around you will affect with your positive attitude and you will win. We can see lives of legends from history till date they challenged the odds, did Adventurous stuffs with challenges, fought hard, took calculated risks and emerged as heroes.

5.       Make Meaningful Friendships:

We as humans looking for friendships, which is good thing but we also need to understand the difference between friendships and acquaintances. Judge people before make them enter into your life. Friends play an important role in one’s life. The quality of your friends shows your level of success in life. The word meaningful is very important here, definition of meaningful may vary from person to person as it all depends on the standard of your thoughts and the level you want to do in your life. Friends mold our emotions and emotions leads to action and actions bring outcomes.

6.       If Not Able To Help Others, At-least Stand With Them:

Human psychology is when we know anything happen to us impact us adversely and if we find out more people  affected with the same we start correlating to them and relaxed emotions flows in the mind. Similarly, when we stuck alone we frightened prima-facie and when we know that people stand with you on the same will improve self-confidence. We all are social human beings, as soon as we get accepted as what we are we start flourishing and exploring the undefined. So a person who says ignores others that are true to some extent but you can’t all the times so start dealing with it like this. Two things happen in this situation one the person who is getting helped will fill with gratitude and the person who help him will feel self-pride both emotions give positivity and you succeed.

7.       Take Leadership On The Situation:

Stating the above sentence is very easy but when it comes to use it practically most of us not able to break the barriers drawn by ourselves. Showing leadership in adverse situation don’t means you need to do something unique or special or miracle, what you need to do is only to “act rationally” which most of us never able to do. Think over solutions and prepare your mind for anything worst too. This strategy helps you to stop panicking and minimizes surprise shocks.

8.       Smile...

As said earlier as well that we are social animals, constantly in search of happiness and peace of mind. Research shows that smile is the action which gives you so much positive energy and good thoughts about yourself and for others; this will make you to work in right direction unconsciously. There is a saying scientifically proofed “If you give a smile to 10 people 9 people greets you by smiling you back”. Such a powerful tool we have with us and in any odds happened, the very first thing we forget is to smile. And here let me clear you that I am not talking about laugh out loud when you are in death ceremony, its common sense that all this points are self talk, by following this you will make an impact not only you find in yourself but the people around you also admires and what else one needs in life i.e. name, fame, self-esteem and self-actualization. So start smiling not for the sake of smile but to feel and make the impact in lives.

9.       Understan Everything Is Temporary:

Anything happens, it may good or bad for you; do not stay life long, definitely it will pass by. How soon you understand, you become more mature. Every hero who is doing very good and bounce back when the fall because they know whatever situation they are in will not sustain life long. So here is the crux “Start enjoying the moments in life good or bad” the more you enjoy the more you become creative and innovative to cross check you can have word with any sales professional who is doing good in their life you can able to understand.

10.   Upgrade Yourself, Read A Lot:

Acting happy doesn’t means you are happy you need  to take action and to take informed decisions in life you need to have knowledge, to acquire knowledge you need to first read a lot of books related to problems you are facing in life. Let me bet you on this there are no substitutes of good books. Upgrade yourself by keeping company of successful people, play outdoor games like kids sounds funny but relevant. Talk to kids, old age people you grow as a person. Also study about human behavior and you find where you stand and how far you have to go. Don’t feel ashamed of doing this the results are tried and tested so start doing it now. click here to learn about how to start something new https://bit.ly/2BSskhJ

11.   Surprise Others With Your Unique Abilities:

Start surprising not only others with your attitude and ability to act but also surprise to yourself, this is what makes a huge difference that one should call you a hero or zero. The ability to surprise the situation and your energy to handle things will increases immensely, you start feeling the change about yourself and see the upgraded version of yourself. One more thing here is always trying to keep things simple and all this is mindset nothing else.

This is the real life practical thought process of the unique minds that bounce back in their lives and become role model in life of common man. Applying these strategies in life you started your life to move up and you will do whatever you what to meet in life. So let’s begin to change our life from common to a life of super hero who can manage any situation occurs in their life’s and put positive impact on others with this success in life.

Share your inputs and stories about any situation you faced in life and came out of it like no one else ever did.