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| How to Handle Dominating People in Life |
In life we met lots of people
sometimes with in family and many a times outside family. It is really very sad
in Indian society where parents don’t teach their kids proper ethics and values
and later on the kids start harassing their parents first.
It doesn’t matter you are a boy
or girl if you dominate others then primarily you need treatment from mental
hospital. Usually, it’s seen that these types of creatures start disturbing
lives of their near and dear ones. They
are very concern about their social image but the fact is they are portraying
wrong image in front of other and not even feeling shame by playing politics
with in their own family.
Dominating people are weak,
frightened and full of fears may it is of money, power, controlling some one’s
life and so on. It is very simple rule that if you want to dominate so better
try it with the similar caliber or having caliber more than you. Showing you
domination and politics with people who are soft-hearted and targeting them
with your cheap actions is really ridiculous.
In society, it is really bad that
people who are well-educated especially people who are Government servants have
a bit of really shit attitude. Now no need to worry about such people on how to
handle such fellows it doesn’t matter it’s a male or female. Dominating is not
tolerated. Let’s discuss on how to handle such dominating people and kill their
attitude with our words and actions.
1.
Don’t
be afraid to face such people:
Generally,
people who want to dominate always use high pitch of voice and shouting,
humiliates, harass people who are little weaker in front of them and always try
to make you feel worthless person who always takes wrong decisions and they
always did the right things in life.
Very strict note
don’t be afraid with such people face them boldly head to head, don’t speak to
them anything as they are a stranger to you. Make them feel like a barking dog
to which no one is listening.
2.
Ignore
them:
The best way to
deal with dominating people is to ignore them, but the contradiction rises here
is dominating people don’t let you ignore them. So now what? It’s very simple you
don’t react or respond to them, ignore them like they are nothing for you. You
silence kills them at the best.
3.
Be Assertive by showing them their limits:
Be
very strict and clear on what behavior you want from them speak upfront on
this, show them what they deserve. Never get stuck with such people and if
still they want to dominate you then treat them a good lesson.
4.
Handle
them with maturity:
Try to avoid
clashes first but if they didn’t understand that your avoidance is not fear.
Have faith in self that you are mature enough and handle this type of people as
well and it doesn’t matter they are from your family, friends, relatives or
acquaintances. No one have this right to dominate you. For this be more
rational in thinking and keep your emotions aside.
5.
Hit
ones for all and hit them hard:
It’s really
interesting now; no one will ever give you such piece of advice what I am going
to give you now, If this dominating people crosses their limits then you have
no option left be more aggressive and hit them hard with your words, pin point
their weak points, loop holes, unethical acts, harassment etc and make big
issue of that humiliate them in public. Bring their original face in front of
all.
Ensure
that you hit them so hard that they will never ever again stand in front of you
to dominate.
6.
Take
deep breath and strategize:
Take deep breath
and focus on how you can handle and stop them from humiliating your mental
comfort. These people have a specific mind-set and you just need to hurt their
egos so well that they feel the pain. So plan accordingly by keeping your mind
cool and calm, find solution to keep them shut up and you will find the
solution, have confidence in you that you can handle not only worse people but
also you can manage adverse situations too.
7.
You
have to take a stand:
When such people
start disturbing you, just close your eyes meditate and think on how you deal
with them. While thinking you check all aspects of how your action impacts on you
on the opponent, on other members around you and then act like a perfectionist.
And once you take action don’t think over it again you did the right thing
because you already did the analysis before action.
8.
Finally,
Be yourself:
This is again
very tricky, dominating people look for people who they think they are inferior
to them and start dominating them. What mostly irritates them firstly, you ignore
them and secondly, you are not affected by their words and action “Be yourself”.
This is really amazing to see their reactions and disturbance and you are at
peace.
Different people have different
techniques to deal with dominating people, but one thing is same that is you.
What matters here in this is how you want to deal with them, let give them
liberty to dominate you or you show them the real you and keep your mental
comfort with peace of mind. You need to take action against such people is for
sure otherwise they never stop interfering and dominating in your life.
Now decision is yours and act
wisely. If you want to share your experience on how you handle dominating
people please share in comment section.
