How to deal with situation, when odds are against you:

How to deal with situation, when odds are against you

Life is nothing but the permutation and combination of energies, attitudes, behaviors, thoughts, emotions, actions etc. All human beings in the world were attached with such bonds with each other and with the nature too. No one in the world is perfect and hence it shows all decisions taken by person, sometimes give favorable outcome and sometimes not. Situation arises where most people get stuck where we not able to find the solutions to the problem, feels suppressed, exhausted, depressed and not able to find the directions. This scenario is defined as we say that the odds are against us.

We need to understand that any situation which is according to us is adverse situation is always temporary in nature sometimes we need to take painful decisions sometimes easy ones. Here are some of the tried and tested approaches to deal with odds, our approach to the problems are the only miracle which created by us to convert the odds in our favor.

Understand each point carefully and apply in your daily routine and will see a new you with full of positivity, enthusiastic, energetic, happy, aggressive, healthy and peaceful mind. You need to trust the process first. If you practice this as habit you will see instant results of the below approaches.

1.       Never lose Confidence:

In any situation we all humans have one thing in common way of reaction i.e. prima-fascia we lose confidence for a moment but very few percentage of people never get distracted and not at all lose their self-confidence. Confidence is a key without which we never achieve what we want to achieve in life. You need to believe in yourself that:

a.       Always speak with self “I am capable to deal with any situations smartly”.

b.      Never doubt on self decisions. Think 10 times before taking any decision, once it taken then stop worrying and focus on the outcome.

c.       Only you can find the solution for the existing problem.

d.      Start thinking in a creative and innovative ways.

e.      Keep trust on yourself and people around you.

f.        You are capable to overcome fears.

g.       Surround yourself with people who are positive and full of energy and confidence.

h.    Always speak truth with yourself.

2.       Deal with One at a time:

Before taking any action first we need to analyze the overall scenario along with what all strengths we have and what are the weaknesses in that situation. Think over creative ways to deal with weaknesses. Once we make the layout of the situation and what we need to do is clear them it’s time to nail it with action one-by-one, step-by-step. Sometimes you feel like you are not able to move ahead but don’t lose hope and focus with the plan and finally you find yourself in a better position as compared to the previous one.

3.       Don’t try to control things which are not in your hands:

It is human’s tendency that we get worried on the stuffs which are not in our control. And most of the times such worries are voids which we think are the serious problems. External factors are never in our control, we only prepare for the uncertainties and if we take calculated risk in all our workings so the chance of loss will get minimal. If we have full information, knows how to handle the situation we do it very easily but if the non recurring problem arises in that also we need to keep our cool intact and make decisions accordingly.

4.       Keep Patience:

Now this is tricky, today we are lacking in patience level not only in India but in whole world. We need everything at the moment we wish but the fact of the matter is we need to follow the nature rules; we need to give time to everything to flourish or to close anything. Accepting rejections is an art; you need courage to accept rejections positively.

I will give you a trick which you can practice, run your mind in n number of things and stuffs but when it comes to dealing with those stuffs do it one by one. Cool mind ignites creativity so focus on it by doing bit of meditation if you get stuck which makes you unrest mentally and physically. I assure you practice this and you will get positive results.

5.       Reset your priorities:

When, we come to know that nothing is moving in a way you planned, then don’t waste time and just reset all your priorities as per the situation and keep emotions aside. Yes I know it’s pretty tough but if you need to make a rational decision you have to keep emotions side and take decision which is even if painful today but in log run it will definitely give you satisfaction which is the biggest gain.

6.        Give time to yourself,  people and situation:

It is ok if things are not working according the way you want. Just focus on yourself your near and dear ones who are important to you and this bonding will give you energy to fight with any damn hell situation and make it convert in your way. One important thing “Stop changing your goals based on temporary situations, always work on your strategies to achieve you goals”.

7.       There are no accidents:

It is a nature rule there is certainly a cause behind any outcome. When you get stuck in situations like this retrospect the situation in reverse order while meditating and you will find the cause and the loop-hole because of which the situation arises. Once you identify the route-cause you find remedy by yourself only.

8.       Don’t get distracted by others:

It is again very common thing we usually do in our lives very often. Whenever we get stuck in any situation where nothing is happening according to our planning, we get confused and start searching for help from others. Here, asking for help is not a bad thing but you need to understand what kind of people you are taking advice for your situation. Don’t blindly follow other person views do your own research and believe in your own gut feeling and act wisely.

9.       Think on logic's and keep emotions aside:

Life is nothing but bunches of your decisions, decisions based on two ways one on logic's and other way based on emotions. Certainly, depends upon situation we opt any one of the type of decision-making philosophy. Logic based on facts and figures, trends, physiology behind any thought, motives and vision. If you analyze all these factors keeping emotional aspect aside you will get a rational outcome. Do analysis of logic's and emotions before making any decisions, you will get the answer which is best for you.

10.   Understand this phase is temporary:

“Change is only thing which is permanent in nature”.  Sometimes change is good for you and sometimes it’s not good for you. Sometimes change comes in our life by our decisions and sometimes from others decisions. You need to understand the fact in all the cases change will come. Now you can manage things if you are strong enough physically and mentally to accept the change and act accordingly. Every phase is temporary because you are making decisions at every level of your thoughts and hence you are changing continuously. Conclusion is don’t get depressed or demotivated because this situation also going to change. So stay happy and cheerful in all situations.

11.   Never Give up:

This is one of the most common words you heard very often. But we forget the intensity and importance of the term “Never Give up” said so many times in our day-to-day activities. When things are not moving and everything is working against us our near and dear ones are also not at all listen and understand you. In such scenario people give up and to the extreme they sacrifice their life by committing suicides, hurting self etc.

It is really very sensitive issue, you need to understand this “this particular situation is not the end of the world, Its never too late to start something new in life.” if odds are against you that means you are capable enough to handle such mess the only thing you need to do is to believe in yourself.

If you think you are not getting answers to your problems rather being upset go find out the solutions or find right people who can guide you to make right decisions.

Here I am requesting you if you need any help at any point of situation in your life irrespective of your age you can write me at dhananjay840@gmail.com I will try to give you the best suitable solution to your problem. Meanwhile if you have something to share with us please write us in comment section below.