How to Handle Dominating People in Life:

How to Handle Dominating People in Life

In life we met lots of people sometimes with in family and many a times outside family. It is really very sad in Indian society where parents don’t teach their kids proper ethics and values and later on the kids start harassing their parents first.

It doesn’t matter you are a boy or girl if you dominate others then primarily you need treatment from mental hospital. Usually, it’s seen that these types of creatures start disturbing lives of their near and dear ones.  They are very concern about their social image but the fact is they are portraying wrong image in front of other and not even feeling shame by playing politics with in their own family.

Dominating people are weak, frightened and full of fears may it is of money, power, controlling some one’s life and so on. It is very simple rule that if you want to dominate so better try it with the similar caliber or having caliber more than you. Showing you domination and politics with people who are soft-hearted and targeting them with your cheap actions is really ridiculous.

In society, it is really bad that people who are well-educated especially people who are Government servants have a bit of really shit attitude. Now no need to worry about such people on how to handle such fellows it doesn’t matter it’s a male or female. Dominating is not tolerated. Let’s discuss on how to handle such dominating people and kill their attitude with our words and actions.

1.       Don’t be afraid to face such people:

Generally, people who want to dominate always use high pitch of voice and shouting, humiliates, harass people who are little weaker in front of them and always try to make you feel worthless person who always takes wrong decisions and they always did the right things in life. 

Very strict note don’t be afraid with such people face them boldly head to head, don’t speak to them anything as they are a stranger to you. Make them feel like a barking dog to which no one is listening.

2.       Ignore them:

The best way to deal with dominating people is to ignore them, but the contradiction rises here is dominating people don’t let you ignore them. So now what? It’s very simple you don’t react or respond to them, ignore them like they are nothing for you. You silence kills them at the best.

3.       Be Assertive by showing them their limits:

Be very strict and clear on what behavior you want from them speak upfront on this, show them what they deserve. Never get stuck with such people and if still they want to dominate you then treat them a good lesson.

4.       Handle them with maturity:

Try to avoid clashes first but if they didn’t understand that your avoidance is not fear. Have faith in self that you are mature enough and handle this type of people as well and it doesn’t matter they are from your family, friends, relatives or acquaintances. No one have this right to dominate you. For this be more rational in thinking and keep your emotions aside.

5.       Hit ones for all and hit them hard:

It’s really interesting now; no one will ever give you such piece of advice what I am going to give you now, If this dominating people crosses their limits then you have no option left be more aggressive and hit them hard with your words, pin point their weak points, loop holes, unethical acts, harassment etc and make big issue of that humiliate them in public. Bring their original face in front of all.

Ensure that you hit them so hard that they will never ever again stand in front of you to dominate.

6.       Take deep breath and strategize:

Take deep breath and focus on how you can handle and stop them from humiliating your mental comfort. These people have a specific mind-set and you just need to hurt their egos so well that they feel the pain. So plan accordingly by keeping your mind cool and calm, find solution to keep them shut up and you will find the solution, have confidence in you that you can handle not only worse people but also you can manage adverse situations too.

7.       You have to take a stand:

When such people start disturbing you, just close your eyes meditate and think on how you deal with them. While thinking you check all aspects of how your action impacts on you on the opponent, on other members around you and then act like a perfectionist. And once you take action don’t think over it again you did the right thing because you already did the analysis before action.

8.       Finally, Be yourself:

This is again very tricky, dominating people look for people who they think they are inferior to them and start dominating them. What mostly irritates them firstly, you ignore them and secondly, you are not affected by their words and action “Be yourself”. This is really amazing to see their reactions and disturbance and you are at peace.

Different people have different techniques to deal with dominating people, but one thing is same that is you. What matters here in this is how you want to deal with them, let give them liberty to dominate you or you show them the real you and keep your mental comfort with peace of mind. You need to take action against such people is for sure otherwise they never stop interfering and dominating in your life.

Now decision is yours and act wisely. If you want to share your experience on how you handle dominating people please share in comment section.