What to do while Quarantine due to Coronavirus:

What to do while Quarantine due to Coronavirus

We all know the seriousness of Coronavirus nowadays and its impact on our lives. Almost, whole World is lock-down these days. Doctors and Scientists are hassled to discover medicine for such a dangerous virus developed by China.

But this piece of writing is not on how Coronavirus impacts on our lives we all are aware about that and following necessary guidance  issued by Government from time to time. We are going to talk about how we can spend our time in most productive way in this lock-down so that we can feel a sense of satisfaction and learn new things about life.

Our goal is to stay in peace and happiness this only is possible if we make our deep connection with nature, this lock-down provides us an opportunity to spend our time with ourselves and find meaning to our lives. Now, here is a question that how we can find our life purpose and how we feel sense of satisfaction in such a scenario!

Let’s have a look over this question and try to find solution to that. Today we all stuck at our homes though, we have a lot of time to find ourselves and work on various skills and gain knowledge not only about our career, job or business, but also more curious to find knowledge and made connection with universe with help of spirituality. Let’s dig it little deeper:

1.       Have a day plan on daily basis:

We are considering this Quarantine as holidays and to some extend it is true but here we have to save ourselves and hence we stuck in our houses so far. We do have an opportunity here to work and to bring the best version of ourselves. To get this result we need to follow a routine with a day plan and spend time on working on our skills.

2.       Meditate, pray & exercise daily:

It is known to all of us but we become so lazy we didn’t work out; when it comes to give knowledge over it we drain it over others. So no further details just ask you all to begin with little steps in this direction to get amazing results by doing meditation, exercise and prayers daily.

3.       Be positive that this phase will also move on:

Today, social media and almost every news channel is busy in giving you lots of information which develops fear in minds that we start believing on the rumors and fake news created by them. Stay away from all these mode of information & don’t involve in it all time. It’s just a phase which will also be passing on if we follow necessary guidelines provided by government. Believe me their is always an opportunity in adversity and uncertainty, so think positive and open to start something new after this Coronavirus pedantic.  

4.       Smile a lot & believe in God:

Smile gives you positivity and hence as we are getting frustrated because of this lock-down and many people are quarantine and isolated that they don’t have anyone to talk with, in such a scenario where everything is against us, to stay positive one need to do two things one keep smiling and two have full faith in God and connect yourself with universe through meditation.

5.       Spend quality time with family:

This is very important thing which we are doing now, but to bring quality discussions with in family is important don’t get isolated with your mobiles and internet or with TV. Keep aside all this things and have real discussions which develop strong bonding with each other and nurture our relationships. Things you can do like cooking food together then have your meals together, play some indoor games with family, pray together to almighty, listen good music, do exercise, yoga or dance with family it keeps you fit physically and mentally etc.

6.       Develop habit of reading good literature:

It is very difficult thing but to grow our minds we need to read good literature and books, Reading requires courage, courage to spend time with books which calls for concentration. We are living in the time of TikTok & WhatsApp where we lost our patience level which hampers our mind at large. So save your mind and create something creative by using this quality time which will never be coming back.

7.       Think about logic's and be rational in thoughts:

In this Quarantine or lock-down we have to develop our rational things don’t get involve in rumors, gossips or any kind of religious non sense. Have self-confidence that your rational thoughts will help not only you but people associated with you in such a way that their life may affected in positive way or in negative way and it all depends on you on haw you can lead your thoughts to make an impact on others.

8.       Help others who are near to you:

Give yourself reason that build faith in you and other that humanity is still alive in the planet earth. It only is possible if you start an act of kindness for the needy. It doesn’t matter how big the act what matters is how much humanity is inside that act of kindness. To do this you don’t need to go outside your houses, you are already doing act of kindness by isolating yourselves from outer world at the moment. Just follow the instructions and guidelines issues by government and authorities and support not only society but make your contribution to save yourselves.

Above we have seen the things which one should to do now have some light over things which we need to avoid excess usage:

1.        Social media

2.       Television & specially news channels

3.       Mobile usage

4.       Poking nose in others life

5.       Going outside house for a while

6.       Don’t get panicked by the rumors

7.       Don’t expect  too much not only from others but from self

8.       Don’t be over-confident

9.       Don’t be too much pushy

10.   Don’t lose hope in any situation

Hope these points will help you to recognize that how much big responsibility every one of us have in such a dangerous situation which we humans are facing today. We have to keep aside politics, and make efforts with humanity to bring life to normal. Once everything back to normal, then we will take corrective measures over the notorious people and countries who are the real cause of such a situation.

Share your Quarantine experiences and let be acquainted with others and learn from your inputs too. Best wishes to all on fight against Coronavirus.

How to find job in Abroad:

How to find job in Abroad

Coming directly to the point on how anyone can find a suitable job anywhere in the world! Here in this article you will find a systematic and easy approaches to find jobs in countries like USA, Australia, Canada, Dubai, GCC, Denmark, Netherlands and so on, there are lots of countries where people searching jobs. Below are the easy yet most effective ways one can find their dream job anywhere in abroad. Also, there is a lot of things to taken care off while searching jobs in abroad. So let’s begin the detail discussion:

1.       Create  Action plan & Strategies:

Firstly, make a strategic plan to get desired outcome and how you make this plan take below points into consideration:

a.       Decide for how long you want to go to any country (Short term or Long term).

b.      Do Research about countries where you are planning to move.

c.       Make list of your skill sets which you think you are good at.

d.      Find out any friends, relatives or acquaintance you have in any country and talk to them.

e.      Gather more information about job scenario in foreign through internet.

2.       Have valid Passport:

You need to have a valid passport. If you don’t have so you can apply online as it is very easy to get your passport. Many people depend on the employers for passport as well but you need to know that nominal charges are there for applying for passport. How you can apply for passport online https://portal2.passportindia.gov.in/AppOnlineProject/online/procFormSubOnl

3.       Choose Countries:

People get stuck on how to find a suitable country so here is the answer:

a.       Make list of as many countries where you are planning to move.

b.      Do research on job market in those countries.

c.       Check Environmental, political, social economic conditions and their immigration policies. You can gather all information through internet.

d.      Compare all these factors with your home country.

e.      You will find the best suitable country option in this process.

For example If you like cold places you can plan for Canada, if you like climate like India so you can opt for Australia. Apart from this two countries if you think you have good technical skills so you may go for Dubai, Saudi Arabia, GCC countries. For IT, Engineers and Top Management executives USA is an option, Denmark, Netherlands and Ireland are the countries where people from medical background do have good opportunities and so on. This is how you can do your own detail research about your options and decide the best one to go ahead.

4.       CV & Cover letter as per country and company’s requirement:

CV and Cover letter is an entry ticket for the interview, there are different types of CV formats for fresher’s, professional and for C level executives. Click here to get various types of CV format https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/resumes-cover-letters/cv-format-guide

While writing CV keeps in mind give/mention full details of your job responsibilities the reason for this is in every country designation and roles are different it’s not similar to Indian companies. It’s better to describe your roles and responsibilities point wise.

 An interesting CV needs an interesting cover letter. Cover letter is nothing but the summary of your professional and personal life. Be selective as keywords play a very important role in your cover letter and CV.  Here are few sample cover letter https://resumegenius.com/cover-letter-examples

5.       Register your profile on various Government job Banks:

Every country has their job banks where people from other countries have to register their profile and if they have any vacancies the employer’s give preference to the profile which is register with their job banks. Countries like Canada, Australia, and Dubai etc have their job banks.

6.       Create your profile on various job portals of particular country:

Like in India we do get register our profile on various job portals likewise if you are looking opportunities in a particular country then you have to register your profile along with your updated resume on those countries job portals. Now, the first question comes in mind is how to find job portals of any particular country! So below is the process:

Example if we look for Canada then you have to go to Google Canada ( www.google.ca) likewise for every country Google have their own extension Ex: Australia (.au), United Arab Emirates (.ae), Denmark (.dk), Ireland (.ie) , Netherlands (.nl) etc.

Just open Google of that particular country and register your profile with updated resume on various local job portals.

7.       Use Social Media:

We are living in the era of social media where everything is available on our figure tip. Be active on various professional web portals like LinkedIn and get connected with various professionals. Here you have two ways to do that one you can get connects with your specific industry professionals and seniors and second you can connect with any professional and increase you network. Both ways are important and again to make most of this networking sites you have to do it keeping in mind your aim which you want to meet through those connection building.

8.       Know about Recruitment Process:

As we all know every company have their own unique recruitment process in a same way different countries do have their own defined guidelines to their companies while hiring any human resource from outside their country. In many countries companies have to prove to their government on why they want to hire any human resource outside their country. Now here you roles and responsibilities plays a crucial role that’s why we have to explain it in details in our resume or CV.

Many English-speaking countries IELTS/TOEFL/PTE/GRE/GMAT is mandatory to clear. Check in which country which examination in required then appear and clear it accordingly. These exams are pretty costly and hence it’s suggested to prepare oneself before appearing for the same. There are lots of tutorials and information available on internet for this exam preparation.

9.       Do your own Research about Sectors & Companies of your Interest:

As we do research and collect information of our industry or sector while planning to switch a job, in same way we have to look macro picture of the country economy not only on job perspective but also check on health, security etc. Don’t just relay on the information provided by your consultant do your own research and then take an informed decision.

10.   Find and use References (if any):

References plays a very vital role, try to find any connection and references in those countries where you are planning to settle down and don’t feel shy for asking help from them.

11.   Maintain Sufficient Fund in Bank Account:

This is important for people who are applying for PR visa and even if you are looking for work visa or any other visa try to keep up adequate amount for your backup. Be a good negotiator when it is of work visa.

For Work Visa negotiate:

i.                     On  your Tickets and Accommodation

ii.                   On to take your family along with you

iii.                  On leaves & Travelling policy

iv.                 On Visa process ( ask employer to do it)

v.                   On contact and terms and conditions

NOTE: No Employer will ask for money to give you job, never ask to surrender you Passport for contractual period, never give you job offer without interview. If someone asks you to do so then consider them a fraud and don’t get into their trap.

Important points to remember:

1.       Never Ever surrender your Passport to any employer, consultancies or anyone.

2.       Never use paid services of recruitment consultancies.

3.       Check genuineness of employers.

4.       Don’t share your Credit or Debit card details with any employers.

5.       Don’t fall into traps of shortcuts: Getting job is a time-consuming process.

6.       Take everything in writing don’t trust on verbal commitments.

7.       Never surrender any of your original documents.

8.       Don’t fall into greed stay calm and focused.

9.       Negotiate with full swing on salary, visa process, accommodation etc.

10.   Believe on your gut instinct.

Hope these points will help you in making decision if you plan to find a job in abroad to start new life.

Important points to save Relationships:

Important points to save Relationships

Life is like a journey full of positives and negatives sweet and sour experiences like a roller coaster ride full of ups and downs. Your every decision makes huge impact on not only in your life but also in the lives of people associated with you. Ultimately, people who loved us is matters. Success and failure always depends, you will see how things moves on, and altogether everything will have changed. Some incidence happens and we get into mindset of “There are no values of commitments and promises yet we portray that we are so much concern about these things” It is not correct way of thinking. In this World we left behind so many things and adopted things in a customized manner due to circumstances, situations, your internal struggles. Every one of us expect that people who are important to us will understand our struggles but the fact of the matter is that we forget that other person is also facing his/her own struggles.

Everyone has their own way of thinking and free to move their lives in the direction in which they want to lead it. We are so much concerned and involved with small things in life due to which we are uncomfortable to break the things as they are.  It’s the harsh reality of life. In this life span we come across lot of people some of them stick to you for life and some gives you lessons for life.  We fall into arguments which never exists, we fight on the matters which are never related to us, we feel negative but didn’t show our feelings to other person and fill with full of hate and hurt which leads us to take decisions which we never want to take in life.

Yes, money is very important for living but more than money are the people who are more important because you might have money if you lost but didn’t have opportunity to take back people who left you due to some misunderstandings. We are living in a society where people are so much selfish and full of fears while making commitments which is wrong for any relationship it is true for both people who are into relationship and try to understand each other. Things which requires time we usually do all that stuffs in bit hurry and where we focus on resolving issues which are created once you took decision which you don’t want to take but might be due to situation and people who all are important to you get involve to take those decisions.

We Indians have habit of blaming people, situation, circumstances and even God but what we miss is ourselves who is the cause of the situation. On certain issues there is only black and white decisions we can’t put things in grey section. Maximum time we focus on that grey section to balance life but in that balancing act you knowing or unknowingly hurt people who care about you the most.

We start things with purpose and focused to achieve that purpose that purpose might be love, affection, stay together etc, and most funny part is if a very minute hurdle comes in we get frightened and want to run away from the situation as much as possible and in this process we hurt the other person to whom we love most. But life has its own way of teaching, it put you again and again in the similar situation until you won’t able to deal with such ones. We are human beings we not only made mistakes we do blunders but still if there is any scope of improvement you see then we need to keep our faith back and try to make things work. Why am I saying all this thing today is because people have habit of blaming others in such a way they show that they are blaming themselves all the times but they didn’t realize by doing such things they affecting the lives of the people who love them. By doing such things what people lose is the credibility, confidence, trustworthiness initially which leads to more difference and disputes and ultimately quieting.

Today society lacks on things like patience, understanding others point of view, love and affection towards people who cares for you. What we are focusing on is the materialistic life, temporary feelings. Due to easy access of internet we live in a virtual world and made ourselves isolated by disconnecting with people in real as a result what we becoming is more aggressive, impatience, depressed, self-obsessed & isolated. We are degrading our values to stay in our own made fantasy cocoon. As a result, we make decisions on which we regret in future.

We humans have habit of living in past and judging people as per our past experiences or by the mistakes they do. But what is correct approach being to overlook some of the differences and give opportunity to other person If they want to change or correct the things which might get destroyed.

There are a lot of mythologies, ideologies, literature, books, articles, journals etc is available all says one thing in common i.e.  “To live happy and peaceful life with people who loved you might be you fight with them, times when they might hurt you and sometimes people do something which you never expect then to do or say but what is most important here in such situations if you find that person realized his/her mistake than definitely you should give them a chance to make things works as they are in normal way”. But humans have tendency to enjoy feeling of self-pity, sympathy, feel weaken, broken, feel distrust, depressed and get detected with all those things and people once who matters you most. We can’t live in fear, uncertainties, regret, risk, compromises and things which are not matching our ethics, values and principles. But here again I want to say you all if anyone hurts you due to any of this points by their words or action and realized that they done wrong to you want to correct what they have messed up so at least give them a fair chance to do so. By doing this you surely get back what you think you lost.

Here are few suggestions in point format to overcome such disturbing situations and enjoy peaceful life:

1.       The moment you think of quitting, thought about why you started.

2.       Don’t be in hurry to make commitment which you don’t able to keep in future.

3.       Have patience everything will fall according to you only if you are true to yourself.

4.       Have faith in God.

5.       Plan, Act, Correct and Control over your unwanted thoughts and actions.

6.       Focus on happiness of not only self but also about people who cares for you specially the loved ones.

7.       Stay focused on one thing at a time.

8.       Life is in transition mode all the time because every time you make a decision your life changes.

9.       Forgive mistakes in relationships have faith and trust in other person as the way you have in them prior to the mistakes.

10.   If you are not sure of anything say it loud and clear.

11.   Whatever it is i.e. job, business, love, relationship anything has trust and confidence in your loved ones.

12.   Anger destroys everything, we say so many things which we never ever mean to say or act as per that but unknowingly you hurt the other person so bad that they don’t even want to look back in a same way as they use to so.

13.   Don’t focus on negative people around you might be anyone from your family, friend or relatives or any acquaintances.

These points look like very easy and known to everyone but when it comes to implement in our own lives we never ever follow them.

I ask you all if someone who is very important to you breaks your trust in some or the other way and later realized that they have done which they even never want to do, after realizing if they want to reconcile and wanting to make things normal as they are. Shall we give them a chance or not!

How to Organize Your Life:

How to Organize Your Life

“Life is going like hell, no time for family and self” we heard this sentence very often now days from every second person we met. It is right that today we are dealing with lot of complex, non recurring issues not only in professional front but at personal side as well. Most of the population today is dealing with stress, work life imbalance, lack of consistency, various health issues and personal life challenges

The reason is when we deal with any of the above mentioned symptoms we have to understand that we are not organized as far as our life is concern, and start giving excuses to ourselves and try to prove the adverse situations which we created by our ignorance or lacking, we give reasons which may vary from person to person. 

We all know that why things are going wrong but due to lack self belief and sometimes due to social obligations we get stuck in life as a result we get stressed and indulge in more stuffs which create chaos.

There are a lot of things people think they are doing to become organized in life, but still not getting the desired outcomes. I am going to give you five major reasons on how you can organized in life and enjoy stress free, relaxed, creative, peace of mind in your life.

1.       Be Healthy :

In this rat race for earning money, today we are taking our health for granted. We are aware of the fact that how important is our health but still we are not caring about it. So here are some tips on how easily you can keep yourself fit and healthy.

Start with very small steps like:

a)      Start eating healthy, organic, hygienic food on regular basis.

b)      Maintain hygiene at your home and work place.

c)       Take deep breaths.

d)      Keep Smiling.

e)      Do exercise or yoga or meditation at least for 15 minutes a day.

f)       Read good books, journals or websites. That will give good diet of knowledge to your mind.

g)      Spend time with “Mother Nature” with your family, friends and relatives.

h)      Start enjoying little things its give mental and physical satisfaction. It keeps you healthy.

2.       Organize Mentally:

Everything starts with mindset. Once you visualize things, you can execute it in a way you imagine it. The more we upgrade our creative thinking the more organized we become in our daily lives. To grow our mind we can start with:

a)      Reading books and literature.

b)      Think and act positive.

c)       Start travelling.

d)      Meet with new people.

e)      Observe different cultures, life styles.

f)       Spend time with kids and old age people.

g)      Meditate and connect yourself with energies of universe. It requires practice and consistency.

3.       Develop Schedule:

One of the reasons of living unorganized life is mismanagement of time. And you can manage it by:

a)      Start developing habit of making schedule and try to follow it as you planned.

b)      Prioritize your time by start maintaining notes or dairy.

c)       Set goals on personal front as well and keep achieving it.

d)      Don’t bring office work at home and vice-versa.

e)      Be creative while performing day-to-day task in life.

f)       Make to do list and make plan for month then break it down to weeks and then in days and follow it sensory. You will see the difference.

g)      Respect time and act wisely.

4.       Don’t Delay or Postpone:

It is one of the reasons for unorganized life. The more we delay or postpone things it will leads to confusion and distractions, this will leads to stress, lack of confidence and finally we get stuck up. So these are the ways to overcome such this type of situations and fears are:

a)      Develop a habit of finishing work as per plan.

b)      Be more effective and efficient in task.

c)       Keep your goals high.

d)      Be focused on your working habits.

e)      Take prompt and informed decisions.

f)       Be Proactive

g)      Eliminate and Inculcate tasks, activities and personality traits on regular intervals.

5.       Keep Control:

Now this is very tricky, most of the people failed because they loss control over their thoughts, habits and activities this is the biggest reason of mismanagement of anyone’s life. To keep everything on track we need to do is:

a)      Be disciplined in life.

b)      Keep things simple.

c)       Keep measures for checking self efficiency, by keeping track of the above mentioned activities.

d)      Be responsible, sincere and honest with yourself.

e)      Set benchmarks and keep regular checks on how you are achieving them.

How to Handle Dominating People in Life:

How to Handle Dominating People in Life

In life we met lots of people sometimes with in family and many a times outside family. It is really very sad in Indian society where parents don’t teach their kids proper ethics and values and later on the kids start harassing their parents first.

It doesn’t matter you are a boy or girl if you dominate others then primarily you need treatment from mental hospital. Usually, it’s seen that these types of creatures start disturbing lives of their near and dear ones.  They are very concern about their social image but the fact is they are portraying wrong image in front of other and not even feeling shame by playing politics with in their own family.

Dominating people are weak, frightened and full of fears may it is of money, power, controlling some one’s life and so on. It is very simple rule that if you want to dominate so better try it with the similar caliber or having caliber more than you. Showing you domination and politics with people who are soft-hearted and targeting them with your cheap actions is really ridiculous.

In society, it is really bad that people who are well-educated especially people who are Government servants have a bit of really shit attitude. Now no need to worry about such people on how to handle such fellows it doesn’t matter it’s a male or female. Dominating is not tolerated. Let’s discuss on how to handle such dominating people and kill their attitude with our words and actions.

1.       Don’t be afraid to face such people:

Generally, people who want to dominate always use high pitch of voice and shouting, humiliates, harass people who are little weaker in front of them and always try to make you feel worthless person who always takes wrong decisions and they always did the right things in life. 

Very strict note don’t be afraid with such people face them boldly head to head, don’t speak to them anything as they are a stranger to you. Make them feel like a barking dog to which no one is listening.

2.       Ignore them:

The best way to deal with dominating people is to ignore them, but the contradiction rises here is dominating people don’t let you ignore them. So now what? It’s very simple you don’t react or respond to them, ignore them like they are nothing for you. You silence kills them at the best.

3.       Be Assertive by showing them their limits:

Be very strict and clear on what behavior you want from them speak upfront on this, show them what they deserve. Never get stuck with such people and if still they want to dominate you then treat them a good lesson.

4.       Handle them with maturity:

Try to avoid clashes first but if they didn’t understand that your avoidance is not fear. Have faith in self that you are mature enough and handle this type of people as well and it doesn’t matter they are from your family, friends, relatives or acquaintances. No one have this right to dominate you. For this be more rational in thinking and keep your emotions aside.

5.       Hit ones for all and hit them hard:

It’s really interesting now; no one will ever give you such piece of advice what I am going to give you now, If this dominating people crosses their limits then you have no option left be more aggressive and hit them hard with your words, pin point their weak points, loop holes, unethical acts, harassment etc and make big issue of that humiliate them in public. Bring their original face in front of all.

Ensure that you hit them so hard that they will never ever again stand in front of you to dominate.

6.       Take deep breath and strategize:

Take deep breath and focus on how you can handle and stop them from humiliating your mental comfort. These people have a specific mind-set and you just need to hurt their egos so well that they feel the pain. So plan accordingly by keeping your mind cool and calm, find solution to keep them shut up and you will find the solution, have confidence in you that you can handle not only worse people but also you can manage adverse situations too.

7.       You have to take a stand:

When such people start disturbing you, just close your eyes meditate and think on how you deal with them. While thinking you check all aspects of how your action impacts on you on the opponent, on other members around you and then act like a perfectionist. And once you take action don’t think over it again you did the right thing because you already did the analysis before action.

8.       Finally, Be yourself:

This is again very tricky, dominating people look for people who they think they are inferior to them and start dominating them. What mostly irritates them firstly, you ignore them and secondly, you are not affected by their words and action “Be yourself”. This is really amazing to see their reactions and disturbance and you are at peace.

Different people have different techniques to deal with dominating people, but one thing is same that is you. What matters here in this is how you want to deal with them, let give them liberty to dominate you or you show them the real you and keep your mental comfort with peace of mind. You need to take action against such people is for sure otherwise they never stop interfering and dominating in your life.

Now decision is yours and act wisely. If you want to share your experience on how you handle dominating people please share in comment section.